Hi,
NumForce is restartable, it always checks for complete steps and skips them. (Hint: if one of the single-point jobs had problems, simply delete the corresponding files and restart NumForce).
To stop NumForce, just create a file called stop in the numforce directory of your input (simplest way is to enter touch stop there), and NumForce will stop at the next step.
Another feature is to call NumForce with the option -prep which just does part of the preparation and stops before starting the single point jobs.
Finally, -mfile expects a file which contains the names of the nodes where the single-point jobs shall run (each line should contain just one name). Most queuing systems generate such a file automatically - please ask your system administrator about it. If you run e.g. PBS, it would be:
NumForce [...] -mfile $PBS_NODEFILE
Regards,
Uwe